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Idilys offers you the best of the best in dating sites for adults who are in a relationship but are looking for a little adventure to spice up their life. Meeting members who, like you, are married or in a relationship is a guarantee you will be understood and respected.

There are already more than 500,000 members to chat with

In a few clicks you can find and chat with people who you find attractive... All you need to do is take the plunge - if that's what you want! Meet men and women who are married or in a relationship who live near you.

No-one will know

You can make use of a variety of tools: wearing a mask and blurring your profile photo, your private photo album and invisible surfing to enable you to meet people in total discretion.

Try the attraction test!

The attraction test enables you to discover people who like the same things as you and those who already like you. A little help to get you started!

People nearby

Use the app to find members near you without revealing your exact location - over to you!

They went for it

" I was reticent about creating a profile on Idilys because it seemed the complete opposite of my idea of discretion. I didn't want anyone to spot me and put my relationship at risk. But the anonymity guarantees that Entre Infidèles offers are very satisfactory and I've never had the slightest problem.

Fabien - 31 - in a relationship for eight years

" I have been with a man I love for 10 years and I just felt a need to spice up my relationship. Through Idilys I met a guy that I really get on well with and we spend some wonderful times together.

Lise - 39 - married for 10 years

" I joined Idilys a year ago and I've met some really great people. I chat, I flirt around and it gets me out of my daily routine. The website is straight-forward and well designed. I play the attraction test a lot because it enables me to meet new members. I'm happy with this website; with it I can enjoy all the pleasures of seduction without jeopardising my whole life.

Anne - 29 - in a relationship

100% anonymous

Our contacts list is confidential and will, under no account be revealed to a third party. Payment receipts are anonymous. You only post the information you want to post.

Discretion guaranteed

Number 1: Relationship discretion. Because we know it is essential to any extra-marital affair, virtual or real, we can assure you all your exchanges will be secret and we use every means at our disposal to ensure they stay that way.

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